“I don’t see him as a cynical person, he thought he could learn to love Diana as his grandmother and grandfather learned to love each other and had a great marriage

Prince Charles and Princess Diana‘s seemingly fairytale beginnings was anything but, and now a new book claims the royal hoped he would “learn to love” his future wife, Princess Diana, when he decided to propose.

Charles wed Diana in July 1981 in a lavish royal ceremony after a whirlwind courtship that started barely a year earlier. Astonishingly, the couple only had around 12 dates between the summer of 1980 and when he popped the question in February 1981, according to Sally Bedell Smith, the author of the biography, Prince Charles: The Passions and Paradoxes of an Improbable Life.

Diana immediately accepted his proposal and Charles thought that he could make the union work.

PRINCE CHARLES AND PRINCESS DIANA AT HIGHGROVE ESTATE
PRINCE CHARLES AND PRINCESS DIANA AT HIGHGROVE ESTATE

“He was obviously anguished, and he said she was someone I could learn to love,” Bedell Smith tells PEOPLE.

“He looked to his grandparents, which wasn’t a love match at the outset and thought if they can do it and build a good marriage then I can do it too.”

Diana also wasn’t ready though for her new status and the celebrity that would follow.

“I learned how traumatic her childhood was and how scarred she was by her parents’ divorce,” Bedell Smith says. “Her bulimic episodes began when she was a teenager and under stress.

ROME, ITALY - APRIL 27: Diana, Princess Of Wales Looking Sad During An Official Overseas Visit. She Is Wearing Pearl Necklace And Earrings And Holding A Bouquet Of Roses. (Photo by Tim Graham/Getty Images)
ROME, ITALY – APRIL 27: Diana, Princess Of Wales Looking Sad During An Official Overseas Visit. She Is Wearing Pearl Necklace And Earrings And Holding A Bouquet Of Roses. (Photo by Tim Graham/Getty Images)

“She couldn’t have accomplished what she did without becoming a princess, but becoming a princess and world celebrity was one of the worst things for her personally.

“I don’t see him as a cynical person, he thought he could learn to love Diana as his grandmother and grandfather learned to love each other and had a great marriage. But because of their fundamental incompatibility and the age gap and her emotional turmoil, it was doomed before they walked down the aisle of St Paul’s Cathedral.”

British Royalty. Scotland. 19th August 1981. Prince Charles and Princess Diana pose by the River Dee while on their honeymoon.
British Royalty. Scotland. 19th August 1981. Prince Charles and Princess Diana pose by the River Dee while on their honeymoon.

Source: PEOPLE COM

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